Comments on: Counteracting Tactics for Interfering With Custody and Visitation

By: Wendy

Wendy — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 00:20:50 +0000

Hi I am step mum to be of 2 little ones 5yrs and 3.5, wew are on interim orders thurs for dinner 3.30 pm til 7pm Sat 8.30am til 3pm 15 mins each way pick up and drop off. This Sat we pick up kids, 3.5 is upset 5 tells us ” mummy was going to lock up house and leave 3.5 there alone” Best we could understand and we didnt question as this would have prolonged sadness. 3.5 eats full brekky and settles by about 10.30 we head off to go canoeing change thier clothes to what we have here for them polar fleece jumpers and trackies right down to socks and take thier home clothes with to change for drop off and incase they get wet (which they didnt). We drop them off on the way past and had been called by friends to aid them in car troubles an hour drive away. Mum calls and askes us to bring back blanky and jacket. the text conversation (document document) goes like this
dad) Sorry cant we have to be else where.Will bag it and put on back of ute . Would drop off but really cant.
mum) Please return this afternoon… it is ur responsibility to return the kids stuff as they are sent to you.3.5 needs her blanket . We have plans ourselves & they do not involve going via ur house. Thank you
dad) Cant , that is it.I am not arguing with you.
mum)Not my problem.You should have made sure you had all the kids stuff together before putting them in the car.
Thats ur responsibility when u have them. We are on our way out in the opposite direction. We need her stuff here for bedtime at 7.
mum) ps she is quite upset at the moment.
dad) Bag is on the ute
dad) well if you dont want her upset come and get it . We have an emergancy.Like I said sorry.
mum)Yep… so typical… bad enough you take 3.5 out on the water without a jacket on a cold day in winter knowing she’s been on medication and fighting larygitis and croupe and once again you have an emergency when going out of ur way for ur children is required…ur child is the one that misses out like normal.Dejavue! 3.5 stuff needs to be back at my place ASAP.
(we do some work trying to get friends to go pick up stuff and drop off at mums but no one can help this takes about an hour and we text back)
dad)Not in town. Have called friends to take stuff to yours but they cant help.We have no ETA for you so you will need to go get 3.5 blanky.
mum) Pathetic… and I am sure my soliciter will agree.
We feel so bad for littlies hoping they are not involved in this argument. All I can say is I will be extra extra vigilant in making sure all thier stuff is with them. This blanky wasnt even touched or thought of during kids time with us we just thought it was for the ride to dads but it seems this blanket was given to 3.5 to keep her happy after the shock she recieved fro m mum in the morning. We have been seeing them for nearly 2 months now and have never seen this blanky!!

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