Local governments earn revenue from the US federal government for violating your rights like they are doing. The intent of the funding was to ensure handling of real child abuse cases, but it is often encouraging local governments to treat far too many things as child abuse even without any evidence. That’s because every parent they label as a child abuser and family to which they “provide services” (enforcing “safety plans” on families, taking the kids away from their families and putting them in foster care, etc.) earns them more funds. The US government is a chief instigator and backer of human rights and civil rights violations because of these policies with no mechanism to police the local governments they are paying to abuse families and children.

Have any charges been brought against you by the DA?

You might consider filing a defamation and harassment lawsuit against your wife.

Please see this story Tonya Craft Declares War on Those Who Falsely Accused Her to get some ideas of the legal options available to a teacher who was falsely accused of sexual abuse and was prosecuted for it then found not guilty. She’s suing all the people and government agencies involved now. We hope she wins. Some of what applies to her may also apply to your situation.

However, I can not do any of that without running the risk of angering the court. So I feel derided and pigeon holed because somebody makes a conjecture based on false charges brought about by angry wife. Worse is that these people in their zealots zeal is doing more damage to family than anybody else ever has – worse it is legal for them to do it and seemingly ignore events.

The following is a brief chain of events so that you will be able to understand what is happening:

o January 08, 2010 – I finished a 303 page Instant Message outlining that my wife had been cheating on me since 2007 and that when she left the boys and I in 2008 she went off to Finland to be with her lover there.

o January 09, 2010 – She overheard me on the phone talking to my friend on the phone about the discovery and my visit to the doctors to get checked-up. She verbally threatened me and began acting violent. I told her that I needed to think about divorce. I decided to talk about it after my son’s birthday.

o January 21, 2010 – My Son’s Birthday

o January 30, 2010 – We speak about divorce, she threatens that I will pay this time. I tell her if she plans on taking the kids away then I would use the Instant Message in court. I told her that I wanted it to be a peaceful divorce and we would visit a lawyer after my business trip to San Antonio.

o February 07, 2010 – I leave to San Antonio for a Sexual Assault Victims Advocate Course “I was selected from the women in my company as the person they most trusted to come to in case of emergencies.” (the irony of it all)

o February 10, 2010 – I come home and I was arrested in front of my house at 8:00pm at night based on the allegations that my wife brought to the police about me being into child porn and being physically abusive, a drug user, the list is lengthy and equally outrageous.

This whole incident is making me sick. Where is the justice in this? I am being vilified and stuck on a stake because my wife make some abhorent claims and sets me up? My kids suffer by having their father ripped from them because the “CPS” on the whimsical anger of my wife thinks I am a threat.

This type of injustice needs to stop. Who is there to help people in these situations?