<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel><title>Comments on: What is the Cost of BPD to Society?</title> <atom:link href="http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 22:59:10 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1</generator> <item><title>By: one of thousands</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-14307</link> <dc:creator>one of thousands</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2010 07:40:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-14307</guid> <description>A fascinating analysis. I&#039;m glad I dug into your archives to find this.Few academics analyze mental illness or the effects of family court foibles in purely economic terms.  Yet as a capitalist society (if, in fact, we truly are) this article pursues a compelling conclusion: We&#039;d be wise to identify and treat BPDs than to allow them to continue to extract their harm.An excellent perspective, and I suspect your estimates of the cost of BPD are extremely conservative.  Scary.So if you&#039;re like me, you&#039;re asking &quot;Why don&#039;t we address this problem? This is a no brainer???&quot;Answer--because all those billions of dollars the article describes as &quot;lost&quot; in dealing with BPDs aren&#039;t, in fact, &quot;lost&quot; at all.Nope. Not &quot;lost&quot; at all.Those billions are going into the pockets of others--many others--who profit from this sickness.  Psychologists. Psychiatrists. Lawyers. Judges. Court personnel. And on, and on, and on.  These parasites feed off of the illness of BPD.  So next time your divorce lawyer/psych/judge pal drives up in a new car, you&#039;ll know exactly who&#039;s blood they&#039;ve been sucking to make the monthly payments.Sick people who need help, don&#039;t know it, and are delusional enough to throw fortunes away to get their egomaniacal BPD &quot;fix.&quot;If I had a bat and walked down skid row hitting winos and stealing wallets, it wouldn&#039;t, and shouldn&#039;t, be long before I&#039;d be in a government cage.  But if I were a psychologist/lawyer/service provider/judge, etc. picking the pocket of a sick BPD, it wouldn&#039;t be long before my &quot;cage&quot; would have a Mercedes crest on the front grill and an exclusive parking spot at the local country club.At some point in Jr. High I remember a teacher telling me that America is the only country in the world where the people are free.  She should have said that America is the only country in the world that has to work this hard to believe it&#039;s still free.Good luck America.  It&#039;s your city, county, state, and country--vote them out and take it back.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A fascinating analysis. I&#8217;m glad I dug into your archives to find this.</p><p>Few academics analyze mental illness or the effects of family court foibles in purely economic terms.  Yet as a capitalist society (if, in fact, we truly are) this article pursues a compelling conclusion: We&#8217;d be wise to identify and treat BPDs than to allow them to continue to extract their harm.</p><p>An excellent perspective, and I suspect your estimates of the cost of BPD are extremely conservative.  Scary.</p><p>So if you&#8217;re like me, you&#8217;re asking &#8220;Why don&#8217;t we address this problem? This is a no brainer???&#8221;</p><p>Answer&#8211;because all those billions of dollars the article describes as &#8220;lost&#8221; in dealing with BPDs aren&#8217;t, in fact, &#8220;lost&#8221; at all.</p><p>Nope. Not &#8220;lost&#8221; at all.</p><p>Those billions are going into the pockets of others&#8211;many others&#8211;who profit from this sickness.  Psychologists. Psychiatrists. Lawyers. Judges. Court personnel. And on, and on, and on.  These parasites feed off of the illness of BPD.  So next time your divorce lawyer/psych/judge pal drives up in a new car, you&#8217;ll know exactly who&#8217;s blood they&#8217;ve been sucking to make the monthly payments.</p><p>Sick people who need help, don&#8217;t know it, and are delusional enough to throw fortunes away to get their egomaniacal BPD &#8220;fix.&#8221;</p><p>If I had a bat and walked down skid row hitting winos and stealing wallets, it wouldn&#8217;t, and shouldn&#8217;t, be long before I&#8217;d be in a government cage.  But if I were a psychologist/lawyer/service provider/judge, etc. picking the pocket of a sick BPD, it wouldn&#8217;t be long before my &#8220;cage&#8221; would have a Mercedes crest on the front grill and an exclusive parking spot at the local country club.</p><p>At some point in Jr. High I remember a teacher telling me that America is the only country in the world where the people are free.  She should have said that America is the only country in the world that has to work this hard to believe it&#8217;s still free.</p><p>Good luck America.  It&#8217;s your city, county, state, and country&#8211;vote them out and take it back.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Maclancelot</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-14296</link> <dc:creator>Maclancelot</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:40:18 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-14296</guid> <description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-1772&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@ Terri  &lt;/a&gt; Terri, I have been through a similar experience with my soon to be &quot;ex-wife&quot;. It is as if you woke up one day and found out that your significant other was a spy or something...it is that unsettling. It took me almost a month and some serious reading before I could put my finger on it. All I can say is that if you recognize this kind of behavior, run for the hills!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-1772" rel="nofollow">@ Terri </a><br /> Terri, I have been through a similar experience with my soon to be &#8220;ex-wife&#8221;. It is as if you woke up one day and found out that your significant other was a spy or something&#8230;it is that unsettling. It took me almost a month and some serious reading before I could put my finger on it. All I can say is that if you recognize this kind of behavior, run for the hills!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Why Narcissism and Other High Conflict Personalities Are On the Rise &#171; A Shrink for Men</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-14288</link> <dc:creator>Why Narcissism and Other High Conflict Personalities Are On the Rise &#171; A Shrink for Men</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 19:09:57 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-14288</guid> <description>[...] government, the court system, school systems, healthcare and just about every facet of life. The cost to society is high because their behavior doesn&#8217;t occur in a vacuum. It affects millions of people every day. [...]</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] government, the court system, school systems, healthcare and just about every facet of life. The cost to society is high because their behavior doesn&#8217;t occur in a vacuum. It affects millions of people every day. [...]</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: lolocaust</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-8693</link> <dc:creator>lolocaust</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 23:07:27 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-8693</guid> <description>LOL.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Terri</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-1772</link> <dc:creator>Terri</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 16:09:10 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-1772</guid> <description>I still think about the &quot;friend&quot; Rebecca who I had in my life for several years before knowing all the underhanded lies she had told me and things she did to sabatage me. When confronted in the end I saw a person I had never knew. She went nuts with threats and harrassment. She went into some kind of anxiety panic mode knowing how much trouble she could get in with the several lies and things she had done to me behind my back. She continued to lie and try to cover her tracks. I&#039;m still blown away at the manipulation and lies upon lies she told me. I thank god all that came to the surface and I got the hell away from her.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still think about the &#8220;friend&#8221; Rebecca who I had in my life for several years before knowing all the underhanded lies she had told me and things she did to sabatage me. When confronted in the end I saw a person I had never knew. She went nuts with threats and harrassment. She went into some kind of anxiety panic mode knowing how much trouble she could get in with the several lies and things she had done to me behind my back. She continued to lie and try to cover her tracks. I&#8217;m still blown away at the manipulation and lies upon lies she told me. I thank god all that came to the surface and I got the hell away from her.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Rob</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-188</link> <dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 08:08:38 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-188</guid> <description>I agree with you that from my experience and yours, the estimates of financial impact from Borderlines are low.  But not all of them are as destructive as the ones we know.In any case, if the impact really is on the order of US$150 billion per year, that&#039;s more money per year than for any US federal expense other than the Department of Defense, Health and Human Services, Social Security, and Interest on the National Debt.  For reference, here&#039;s a summary of the &lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.federalbudget.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;US Federal Budget&lt;/a&gt;.Something has to be done about the negative impact people with personality disorders have on the rest of us.  Without some major progress, long-term this problem is a disaster like a hundred year war in Iraq would be.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you that from my experience and yours, the estimates of financial impact from Borderlines are low.  But not all of them are as destructive as the ones we know.</p><p>In any case, if the impact really is on the order of US$150 billion per year, that&#8217;s more money per year than for any US federal expense other than the Department of Defense, Health and Human Services, Social Security, and Interest on the National Debt.  For reference, here&#8217;s a summary of the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.federalbudget.com/" rel="nofollow">US Federal Budget</a>.</p><p>Something has to be done about the negative impact people with personality disorders have on the rest of us.  Without some major progress, long-term this problem is a disaster like a hundred year war in Iraq would be.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Survivor</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-186</link> <dc:creator>Survivor</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 05:47:17 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-186</guid> <description>I was with a BPD GF for a very very long time. Your comments on lost productivity in the work force, and only a 1 day of used resources (eg:police, work, hospitalization, etc) is extremely conservative. Additionally I think your estimates are very low. It is no wonder that many health insurance providers in the states do not cover this disorder. Canada is seeing a very huge increase in these patients as well.The best thing that any of us can do is educate the public on this disorder, and be VERY deliberate about tolerating NO ABUSE of any kind. The abuse rate of MALES is very high, and most of the time the abuse goes undetected until the man has a mental breakdown himself and needs therapy. It&#039;s just not manly to complain about a woman hitting you. Men - If you let this continue, this will kill you in the end, my friends.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was with a BPD GF for a very very long time. Your comments on lost productivity in the work force, and only a 1 day of used resources (eg:police, work, hospitalization, etc) is extremely conservative. Additionally I think your estimates are very low. It is no wonder that many health insurance providers in the states do not cover this disorder. Canada is seeing a very huge increase in these patients as well.</p><p>The best thing that any of us can do is educate the public on this disorder, and be VERY deliberate about tolerating NO ABUSE of any kind. The abuse rate of MALES is very high, and most of the time the abuse goes undetected until the man has a mental breakdown himself and needs therapy. It&#8217;s just not manly to complain about a woman hitting you. Men &#8211; If you let this continue, this will kill you in the end, my friends.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Auto Industry Bailout &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Us House Joins Senate To Back Israel Over Gaza (Afp) &#124; Submit Comment</title><link>http://angiemedia.com/2009/01/11/what-is-the-cost-of-bpd-to-society/comment-page-1/#comment-16</link> <dc:creator>Auto Industry Bailout &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Us House Joins Senate To Back Israel Over Gaza (Afp) &#124; Submit Comment</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:34:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://angiemedia.com/?p=582#comment-16</guid> <description>[...] What is the Cost of BPD to Society? &#124; angiemedia [...]</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] What is the Cost of BPD to Society? | angiemedia [...]</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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